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Friendship
Making friends is a skill like many other skills. It improves with practice. If you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to take some actions. You must first go where there are people. You won’e799bee5baa6e59b9ee7ad94363t make friends staying home alone. Join a club or a group. Taking with those who like the same things as you do is much easier. Or join someone in some activities. Many people are nervous when talking to new people. After all meeting strangers means facing the unknown. And it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown. Most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doubts about ourselves. We imagine other people are judging us of finding us too tall or to short, too this or too that. But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. Try to accept yourself as you are and try to put the other person at ease. You’ll both feel more comfortable.
Try to be self-comfident even if you don’t feel that way. When you enter a room full of strangers, such as a new classroom, walk tall and straight, look directly at other people and smile.
If you see someone you like to speak to, say something . don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.
Just meeting someone new does not mean that you will make friends with that person-friendship is based on mutual liking and “give and take”. It takes time and effort to develop
Listen 善于倾听
The ability to really listen to another is a cornerstone of good friendship.It helps you to understand your friend and his/her feelings,as well as shows that you really care.倾听是友谊的基石 他有助于你更好的了解你的7a686964616fe4b893e5b19e333朋友同时又表示你在关心你的朋友
2.Spend quality time with your friend 与朋友相聚
No relationship can be satisfying without quality time spend together.Make time for your friend,schedule get togethers.没相聚就没友谊 所以抽点时间与朋友一起聚聚吧
3.Be forgiving 宽容
There is not even one person in the world who is perfect.You know your own shortcomings,so don't expect perfection from others.I'm not saying that you should always accept a wrong doing on your friend's part.Tell them when you didn't like something and be always ready to make up afterward.Don't hold grudges in your heart.It will help your friend to be long-suffering with you as well.人无完人,任何人都有自己的缺点所以就不要要求别人完美 我并不是叫你一味的纵容朋友的错误 相反你应该明确的告诉你的朋友 不要藏在心底 这对你和你们自己的友谊都是有好处的
4.Admit your faults 勇于承认自己的错误
In every friendship there will be conflict sooner or later.When it comes,often the wrong is on both sides Admit your wrongs instead of just pointing out the wrongs of another person involved.This will help you both to keep the line of communication open and strengthen your friendship
朋友相处迟早都会产生冲突的,但产生误会和冲突时双方都是有责任的 我认为勇于承认自己的过错比追究责任更有助于解决问题和增进友谊
Friendship is a kind of human relations. It is a human instinct to make friends.When in trouble, we
7a64e59b9ee7ad94363need friends to offer us help, support and encouragement. With success achieved, we also need friends to share our joys.
Friendship is also one of the greatest pleasures that we can enjoy. It implies loyalty, cordiality, sympathy, affection,and readiness to help. No man can make the most of his life without carefully and conscientiously striving to win the right kind of friends as he goes along.
Knowing how valuable friendship is, we should be very careful in making friends. Real friends are those who have good character, superior ability and kindness of heart. Real friends can share all our sorrows and double all our joys.While making friends, we should take care to select those who have such fine qualities. Then we should treat our friends with courtesy, be careful not to interfere unreasonably with them,and not to ridicule their proceedings. We should forgive their failures and do our best to help them. In short, when we have established friendship, we ought to cherish and treasure it by means of words and deeds. Only thus, can we develop real friendship and keep the sacred lamp of friendship burning all our life.