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Nowadays, there is often a lack of understanding between parents and children. Children always complain that their parents are out of date, while parents can’7a64e59b9ee7ad94361t approve of what their children say and do. Thus, a big generation gap is formed.
The gap remains wide for many reasons. Children want to be free to choose their own friends, select their own classes in school, plan their own future, earn and spend their own money, and generally run their own life in a more independent way than many parents allow. Also, young children wish to be understood by their parents, but most parents don’t quite understand their children. They regard it as their responsibility to teach their offspring traditional beliefs. They want them to be obedient and do well in school. Therefore, misunderstanding often arise from parents’ tendency to interfere in children’s daily activities.
In my opinion, most problems between parents and children could be solved by joint efforts of both sides to enhance mutual understanding.
其实,人和人之间无谓的代沟,其本质并不是因为语言,年龄百。而是感情。
举个例子,语言度不通的外国人,照样可以进行有效的交流,因为70%来自肢体语言。
年龄更不是了。
真正的代沟来自感情的抵触,举个例子,学生不喜知欢某位老师,老师讲的道理再对,学生也不会听,为什么?道因为他有感情上得抵触,压根就当老师在放屁。版
所以,要解决代沟,就要先解决感情上的抵触,这样才能做有效沟通权。
你去和一个不喜欢你的人去沟通,效果基本等于没有
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