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可以从三个方面考量。
1. 经济因素。
这里又可以分两种情况,
第一,对于经济支付完全没问题的家庭,直接进入下两个问题的讨论--孩子的意愿与能力。
第二,经济不宽裕的,如果孩子足够优秀,可以争取奖金学(奖学金的申请不容易,受诸多因素影响,要深入了解可能性,慎重决策)。
2. 孩子的意愿。
这是非常重要的,从事留学行业七年来,也没少见到孩子本身并不想出国,但迫于家庭压力不得不。显然这样的决定对申请人毫无意义,甚至是种折磨。而如果是低龄孩童,后果就更不敢想象。像张老师这种接受的都是大学生,一般情况下,大学生已经有自己的独立思考和判断能力,所以,应该更清楚自己的留学意愿。
3. 孩子的能力。
若经济足够支持,又有强烈的愿望,那么通常即使能力有一定欠缺,也是可以弥补的。毕竟,太多孩子很大程度上受环境的影响非常大,如果身边的同学都优秀又努力,很多孩子是会在这样进取的环境中力争上游的。这几年中,确实也见过不少孩子,在国内非常一般,但到了国外,通过努力,发展的非常好的。
出国留学,跟很多其他事情一样,总有利弊。对于不同家庭与不同的孩子,要考虑的问e799bee5baa6e4b893e5b19e330题也千差万别。而我们想强调的是,顺其自然才是最好,充分与孩子沟通,尊重本人的想法,毕竟这完全是个人的决定,并且本人要其行为与结果责任。在这样的前提下,“暂时的别离”这样的小问题就不用纠结了,“资金不足”的大问题,也要全家群策群力去解决。
究其根本,很多讨论与指导是太宽泛,最终要因人而异。
Nowadays, many people like to study abroad. Studying abroad is often considered as a great opportunity which will lead to bright future in one's ride of passage. Not only can we learn different cultures and knowledge from foreign countries, studying abroad can also enrich our lives. One coin has two sides. Likewise, different people have different minds. Conservative and negative concerns about studying abroad have been gradually emerging from our society. People start to wonder what goes wrong with studying abroad. There are a couple of issues worth of our discussions. Disadvantages of studying abroad may affect one's life culturally and economically. We Chinese will experience cultural shocks if we study abroad and live in another country. Some peers may not be able to adapt to a new environment of their studying and living, which may be very different from that of theirs. Life is beautiful, and it is hard. If one does not feel comfortable with the new culture of another country, he will not be happy about studying in that country. In addition, studying abroad can cost students a great deal of living expenses. Some Chinese students are so academically successful that they receive scholarships in their studies. However, most peers who study abroad do not receive scholarships. Furthermore, they have to deal with many unexpected hardships by living away from their parents and homeland. For example, medical insurance, daily foods, clothes, rents and transportation can generate a large amount of living expenses. Often time, they need to heavily depend on their parents' overseas monthly payments.
多中国人面对考官不敢说的答案只有一个:为了将来有更好的前途!